I read an interesting article in an old issue of The Atlantic magazine that I bought at the airport in 2025.
It’s about something I hadn’t really put into words before, but immediately recognized- because I’ve seen it in my parents.
If the article is behind a paywall for you- you can listen to it here:
I’ve spent years writing about kids and screen time. About setting limits & about the attention spans of young people who spend too much time on their phone. Basically, trying to sound the alarm about younger generations endlessly scrolling.
However, now, something unexpected is happening.
For many people, the concern is shifting in the opposite direction.
Adult children are starting to notice that their parents or grandparents are the ones constantly on their phones. Scrolling, watching videos, playing games, sometimes even during family visits.
And it creates a strange, almost surreal dynamic:
- Asking your parents to put their phone down
- Repeating the same phrases they once said to you
- Wondering where the line is between connection and distraction
The article is about the idea of a “phone-based retirement.” 
At the same time, the situation isn’t so simple.
For older adults, technology can also be:
- A way to stay connected
- A source of stimulation and curiosity
- A buffer against loneliness or isolation
Curious to hear your thoughts:
- Have you noticed this dynamic in your own family?
- Does it concern you, or do you see it as a natural shift?
- Where do you personally draw the line between “useful” and “too much”?
I would love to hear your perspective 
Let me know your thoughts.
So the same behavior can be both helpful & at times, concerning
That tension is what makes this topic so interesting.