I think we’ve all been taught (at least I have) “If you can’t say something nice, don’t say nothing at all,” but the issue of online abuse, particularly cyberbullying, is increasingly becoming a significant problem, with a variety of studies highlighting its prevalence and impacts.
I recently came upon this article, which I found very interesting:
This is the link to the original survey:
Although this is a serious issue nowadays, with very wide-ranging consequences, part of me thinks that if you put yourself out there (on social media) it just comes with the territory. I grew up in the 90s and before all this social media chaos, so perhaps my view of this is a bit biased. (Feel free to stop me if you’ve had a different experience)
Back in the late 90s & VERY early 2000s, when more & more people were venturing to the Internet, and all kinds of different sites were popping up- there was a site called Hotornot.com- It came out in 2000 & it allowed people to upload their pictures for strangers to rate their attractiveness on a scale of 1 to 10.
The comments were brutal and the ratings even harsher. It was superficial, crass, and VERY offensive. However, PEOPLE chose to put their pix up on that platform. Yes, there were instances where someone was caught posting pix which were not their own- but that was quickly dealt with. I think platform was revolutionary at the time, because it helped to shape the way we interact online today, including the concept of a public profile and dating apps. Like it or not, it did have a significant influence on current online platforms.
Understanding the platform’s history is vital in understanding the evolution of our online identities and interactions. The platform’s core concept of people rating others still resonates in today’s social media with likes, shares, and comments playing a similar role.
However, I think, since this behavior has gone unchecked for over 20 years, it just gets worse & worse. Part of me thinks that it’s just human nature to judge & criticize, and the more hidden we are (online cloak), the more likely we are to do it & the harsher the criticize is.
On the other hand, the, I have a feeling that we somehow, in some weird way, we’ve brought this up on ourselves.
What do you guys think about it? How has your experience online been through the years? Those of you who stay off social media (I know there’s many) can you tell us why you decided to leave, or never join in the first place?
I would love to know your thoughts on this.